If you're a senior reading this, you might be thinking, "I'm not ready to think about moving." If you're an adult child reading this, you might be thinking, "I wish my parents would at least talk about it."
Wherever you find yourselves on this journey, know this: you're not alone, and you don't have to figure it out overnight. The best moves happen when families come together—when we decide to face the future as a team.
Whether you're looking to stay in Fort Thomas, move closer to the kids in Hyde Park, or finally trade the snow shovel for a maintenance-free condo in Crestview Hills, this roadmap is designed to keep everyone's voice at the table.
Let's walk through it together.
Goal: Start the conversation and explore what's possible.
This phase isn't about packing boxes. It's about opening the door to possibility.
For Adult Children: Start with curiosity, not demands. Instead of saying, "Mom, you can't live here anymore," try, "If you could design the perfect day five years from now, what would it look like?" or "I've noticed the stairs are getting harder. Have you ever thought about what a one-level home might feel like?"
For Seniors: It's okay to just look. You're not signing anything. You're not committing. You're simply seeing what's out there.
How We'll Explore Together:
This is where my local knowledge becomes your family's resource. We'll sit down together—you, your loved ones, and me—and simply browse what's available in the neighborhoods you already love.
- We might look at patio homes in Edgewood, where someone else handles the lawn.
- We might explore condos in Anderson Township with elevators and garage parking
-We might tour 55+ communities in Union, where neighbors become friends.
-Or we might discover independent senior apartments near shopping and medical centers in Fort Wright or Kenwood.
The goal isn't a decision. The goal is conversation. Dreaming together lets everyone's voice be heard before any pressure sets in.
Goal: Declutter with dignity and understand your options.
This is where the work begins, but we take it one room at a time.
A Gentle Approach to Letting Go: Everyone knows "Keep, Donate, Trash." Here's a secret that helps: add a box labeled “Maybe."
- For a senior, letting go of a lifetime of possessions is deeply emotional. The "Maybe" box is a safe place. Put items in it that you just can't decide on today. Seal it up, date it, and store it away. If you don't think about it in three months, letting go gets easier.
A "Living Legacy" Gathering: Before anything gets packed away, invite the family over. Put sticky notes on special items—the crystal Granny left you, the vintage jewelry, your father's tools. Let the grandkids place a note on something they'd love to have someday.
The gift here: You get to see your treasures being cherished. The stories get told now. The family avoids arguments later.
How We'll Work Together Here:
This phase is about getting clear on the bigger picture, and I'm here to help you see it clearly.
- We'll look at the numbers together. I'll walk through your current home with both generations and share what we're seeing in today's market. Not a sales pitch—just information to help your family plan.
- I'll connect you with people I trust. Need help with an estate sale? A senior move manager to handle the heavy lifting? A contractor for small repairs? I have recommendations for folks that will treat you like family.
- We'll talk about both sides of the equation. Here's what your current home might sell for. Here's what your dream home might cost. Knowing this early takes the guesswork out of later decisions.
Goal: Carry out the plan and settle in with peace.
Because we prepared together, this phase feels like a well-orchestrated dance, not a chaotic scramble.
Practical Touches That Matter:
-Pack a "First Night" box with medications, a few days of clothes, toiletries, phone chargers, important documents, and a favorite mug. When you arrive at your new home, you have everything you need to feel human immediately.
- In the new home, set up the bed first with familiar sheets. Hang one familiar piece of art. If you always had coffee in a specific blue mug, make sure that mug is on the counter for the first morning. These small anchors turn a house into a home.
How We'll Cross the Finish Line Together:
This is where experience meets trust. The logistics of buying and selling at the same time can feel overwhelming, but you're not managing it alone.
-We'll approach the big step together. Worried about finding the perfect place before your current home sells? We'll explore options like bridge loans or home equity lines that can give you breathing room. You move first, sell second, stress less.
- I'll handle the details so you don't have to. From listing your home to negotiating offers to managing inspections, I'm here to facilitate the process. You focus on your family; I'll focus on the transaction.
- We'll celebrate together. The day you get the keys to your new home, I'm there. Not just to hand them over, but to see the relief and joy on your faces. That's the best part of this work.
Ready to start the conversation? Call or shoot me a message at 859-468-2730.
P.S. If you're reading this and thinking, "I wish we had started months ago," that's okay too. Even in a time crunch, we can apply these principles together. Just give me a call.